Public speaking is one of the most valuable skills in today's professional world. Whether you're presenting to a boardroom, speaking on a panel, or delivering a virtual talk, the ability to communicate clearly and confidently can open doors to new opportunities. Yet, for many, the mere thought of standing in front of an audience induces anxiety.
For those who live with anxiety, are neurodivergent, or feel the weight of societal expectations, 'masking' can feel like a shield. It's the act of blending in, suppressing the parts of oneself that feel too 'different' or 'much' in order to fit a mould. Masking can be a survival tool, a way to navigate environments where we fear rejection or misunderstanding. It can give us temporary relief: "If I just act like everyone else, I'll feel safe." And, our nervous system spends a lot of time looking for signals in our environment that tell us it is safe. Masking can also be exhausting, alienating, and denying our most authentic selves. Over time, it chips away at authenticity, leaving us wondering: Who am I beneath the mask?
One of the key reasons I was drawn to becoming a therapist is my fascination with the concept of the flow state. I have always been fascinated by how it manifests in the arts and have had the privilege of supporting clients who either access this state effortlessly or face considerable obstacles in doing so. My latest article explores this state - a mental zone where focus, creativity, and productivity come together naturally.
It can be easy to take things personally when public speaking. This post explores the importance of detaching from these influences and offers concrete strategies for maintaining a balanced approach.
Holidays should be relaxing, but if your nervous system is stuck in fight or flight mode from work stress, finding calm can be tough. Transitioning from a high-pressure environment to relaxation requires intention and practice.
Feeling scared is natural, but we can manage nerves, anxiety and fear by empowering ourselves with a few mindful practices.
Let's take a moment to celebrate the big and small victories that adorned our journey in 2023. Whether it was conquering a personal goal, finding joy in simple pleasures, or revelling in moments of pure happiness, these instances added colour to the canvas of our lives. Reflecting on these accomplishments and opportunities for growth not only brings a smile to our faces but also serves as a powerful reminder of our ability to overcome challenges.
Let's take a moment to celebrate the big and small victories that adorned our journey in 2023. Whether it was conquering a personal goal, finding joy in simple pleasures, or revelling in moments of pure happiness, these instances added colour to the canvas of our lives. Reflecting on these accomplishments and opportunities for growth not only brings a smile to our faces but also serves as a powerful reminder of our ability to overcome challenges.
Let's take a moment to celebrate the big and small victories that adorned our journey in 2023. Whether it was conquering a personal goal, finding joy in simple pleasures, or revelling in moments of pure happiness, these instances added colour to the canvas of our lives. Reflecting on these accomplishments and opportunities for growth not only brings a smile to our faces but also serves as a powerful reminder of our ability to overcome challenges.
How do I know if I am Anxious? Anxiety is a natural, biological response that is designed to keep us safe from harm. It is designed to protect us and not, as it sometimes feels, to destroy us. Believe it or not, in general, it is really useful and can help motivate us to complete reports or tasks. It is often experienced in the body as a feeling of unease, such as worry or fear.
